Getting Married? - Who To Contact For Nikah Services

Nikkah is the Islamic marriage ceremony that occurs between a Muslim man and Muslim woman, combining their lives as partners going forward. It is a personal contract as well as a social announcement of such a contract. Getting married is said to “complete half of somebody's deen” and is an act that is strongly encouraged by Qur'an and Sunnah.

"And one of His signs is that He has created for you, spouses from amongst yourselves so that you might take comfort in them and He has placed between you, love and mercy. In this, there is surely evidence (of the truth) for the people who carefully think." - [Al-Qur'an: Surah 30, Verse 21]

The Prophet Muhammed (saw) said: “Marriage is my Sunnah. Whosoever keeps away from it is not from me.” - [Sahih-Al-Bukhari]

 

Steps to Getting Married in Islam

 

The stages of a Muslim Nikah ceremony are as follows:

 

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This is the first step of a Muslim wedding. Usually, the elders in the family will seek a suitable partner for their children through friends, family, or marriage consultants. The proposal for marriage is then sent to either the bride or the groom's parents. Alternatively, a young man may approach the father or guardian (wali) of the woman he wishes to marry and ask for her hand.

 

“A woman may be married for 4 reasons: for her property, her family status, her beauty and her piousness in religion, blessed are those that marry her because of her deen (piousness).” - [Sahih-al-Bukhari & Sahih-al-Muslim]

 

Note: There is no intermingling of two non-mahrams or “dating” allowed before getting married. The bride and the groom are however allowed to meet and talk in a controlled setting with a mahram (father/brother/guardian) present.

 

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The sought-out party will then accept the proposal after receiving consent from the man/woman who is to get married. This is a very important step as there is no moving forward if there is no consent. Any conditions/ terms of marriage must be agreed upon before moving further as well (e.g. moving to another country after marriage, etc.)

 

Khansa bint Khidam Al-Ansariya narrated that her father gave her in marriage when she was a matron and she disliked that marriage. So she went to Allah's Apostle and he declared that marriage invalid. - [Sahih-al-Bukhari]

 

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Then comes Nikah, which is the actual ceremony of marriage. There are a few things that are involved in the Nikah being valid. They are:

 

- Mahr: The groom must present the bride with “mahr”, a marriage gift or dower. It may be in the form of money, jewelry, or other things of value, or even a simple act. There is no specified amount or description for mahr, it depends on different people and their cultures. Mahr may be paid upfront, promised at a later date, or a combination of both.

 

“And give the women (on marriage) their dowry as a free gift; but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, take it and enjoy it with right good cheer.” - [Qur'an 4:4]

 

Sahl bin Sad (rali) narrated that the Prophet (saw) said to a man, "Marry, even with (a Mahr equal to) an iron ring." - [Sahih-al-Bukhari]

 

- Ijab-o-Qubool: Then comes “Ijab” expressing the willingness to get married and “qubool” acceptance of the offer. Qubool is usually granted by the wali on behalf of the bride. A written contract (Aqd-Nikah) is then signed by the bride, groom, and two witnesses of sane mind (two males, or one male and two females). The wali must also be present, otherwise, the marriage is invalid.

 

- Khutbah: The Imam (or any other knowledgeable Muslim) will then address the people gathered at the Nikah ceremony and the bride and groom with a sermon, most often about Islamic marriages and the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (saw).

 

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Once the Nikah is over, a wedding banquet called the “walima” is held by the groom. One of the main purposes of a walima is to let the community know that a marriage has taken place between two people, this is important as secret marriages are discouraged and a marriage is only said to be valid if it is made known.

 

The other purpose of a waleema is to celebrate with friends, family and loved ones. It is also very important that the poor people of the community are invited to the banquet along with everyone else. It is better when the ceremony isn't extravagant or wasteful, as the Prophet (saw) has said:

 

“The most blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.” - [Al-Bayhaqi]

 

He (saw) also said: “The worst food is that of a wedding banquet (walima) to which only the rich are invited whilst the poor are not invited. And he who refuses an invitation (to a banquet) disobeys Allah and His Messenger (saw).” - [Sahih-al-Bukhari]

 

Narrated by Anas: “The Prophet did not give a better wedding banquet on the occasion of marrying any of his wives than the one he gave on marrying Zainab, and that banquet was with (consisted of) one sheep.” - [Sahih-al-Bukhari]

 

There are many agencies around the world that provide Nikah services. Think of them as a matchmaking platform, only that these Muslim wedding services are completely Halal. Some of them exist purely offline, but most are taking their platforms online to keep up with the modern world. Of course, the process will depend on the particular country and the particular agency (even though the process of Nikah is well defined and exact, the process of finding a partner is not).

 

There are many places that offer Nikah services that do not include the process of finding a match but do guide you through everything else, i.e. registration, overseeing of the ceremony, etc. If you are unsure of where to go for Nikah services in your country, your closest mosque would be the best bet. Even if they themselves do not provide such services, they will be able to direct you to those who do.

 

Here are some places where you can find Nikah services and other useful information in a few countries around the world:

 

 

Sultan Mosque

(65) 6293 4405 / 6293 4043

 

Masjid Al-Islah

6312 5174

 

Online:

 

Registration of Muslim Marriages (ROMM) – Singapore Government

 

Nakkahwin - Malay Muslim Marriage Portal

 

WannaGetMarried – Chinese, Indian, and Western Marriage Portal

 

 

Masjid Wilayah

03-6201 8791/8767/8780

 

Online:

 

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Masjid Agung Sunda Kelapa (Jakarta)

+62 21 31934261

 

Istiqlal Mosque (Jakarta)

+62 21 3811708

 

 

Wekanda Jumma Masjid (Colombo)

011 2320355

 

Online:

 

Sri Lanka Nikah Service

 

Nikah Lanka

 

 

Kathija Nikah Muslim Matrimony Services (Chennai)

+91 9941697533 / 9941697956

 

Marriage Solutions (Delhi)

 

Nikah Qubool (Bangalore)

+(91)-80-23536177

 

Nikah Matrimonial Service (Mumbai)

+(91)-22-23742687

 

Humsafar Marriage Bureau (Kolkata)

+91 97484 33019

 

Hyderabad Nikah (Hyderabad)

+91 1800 121 4787

 

Online:

 

Nikah In Kerala

 

Nikahnamah – Muslim Matrimonial

 

Rishta Matrimonial

 

Register Marriage

 

Taqwa Marriage

 

 

Al-Ihsan Marriage Service (London)

+44 20 7650 3026

 

Swansea Mosque and Islamic Community Center (Wales)

 

London Central Mosque (London)

+44 20 7724 3363

 

Birmingham Central Mosque (Birmingham)

+44 121 440 5355

 

Epsom and Ewell Islamic Society (EEIS) (Surrey)

01372 210 828

 

Leeds Grand Mosque (Leeds)

01132468789

 

Online:

 

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Frisco Masjid, Inc. (Dallas)

(469) 252-4532

 

EPIC Islamic Center (Texas)

214 7443 786

 

Jamaat Ibad-ar-Rahman (North Carolina)

(919) 683-5593

 

New York Qazi Office (New York)

(718) 864-4803

 

Islamic Institute of Boston (Boston)

617-365-7427

 

IMAN Center (Washington)

(206) 202-IMAN (4626)

 

Taqwa Islamic Center (California)

(510) 894-4684

 

 

Masjid Bilal – Muslim Society of Cumberland (Ontario)

(613) 841-0786

 

Winnipeg Central Mosque (Manitoba)

(204) 783-6797

 

 

Auburn Gallipoli Mosque (New South Wales)

+61 2 9646 5972

 

Hisham Obeid (Perth)

041 888 1321

 

Islamic Society of South Australia (Adelaide)

 

Mustafa Arja - Authorised Islamic and Civil Marriage Celebrant (Sydney)

0405 664 402

 

 

Worldwide Islamic Marriage Bureau

 

Nikah.com

 

Muslim Matrimonials

 

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Nikah Explorer

 

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